How to Live life | Enjoy Life | Happy Life | Living at a glance
Because I didn't want to limit this blog and my writing skills only up to techno articles I am today providing a philosophical article.
By the heading itself you should have got an idea or captured the concept of the article. Happy living is a thing that everybody wants to pursue. The most special thing about this post is that all the tips written under it are written as well as tested by me. I'll not lie in front of the readers, these are the lessons I learn at a point of life when all my friends left me alone all over, the fate opposed me. The golds turned to be glitter. I am sure these "lessons" with you all.Instead of wasting your money on stupid astrologers you can lead a happy life by just following some too-easy-to follow steps :-
An Overview of the steps I am going to explain :-
1) Don't be "OPEN BOOK"
2) Have "NO EXPECTATIONS"
3) Control your Emotions
4) Trust that matters
5) Self-Knowledge
6) Laughter The best medicine
7) Condemn and appreciation
8) Happiness of little moments
9) Why not me or Why me ?
10) Keep learning
1) Don't be "OPEN BOOK" !
Like a open WI-fi can be exploited by everyone, your frankness and your "Open Book" character can too be exploited by anyone. Let your character be mysterious one. It may be rightly said that " grief reduces when shared reduces " but in a busy schedule society we are today living it is keep your secrets because telling your grief will mostly not make any help because half the people are not interested in what you saying and for the other halves it is not important. Even if you have your best friend to share your secrets, Sometimes due to some reasons friendship often breaks or sometimes when they are in anger they may tell your secrets to others. Here I should clarify that I always pray to god that your friends never leave you (like mine did) but still I am writing what I experienced.
2) Have "NO EXPECTATIONS"
To expect something from someone is like hitting your own leg with an axe. Never expect anything from anyone even if you have helped someone in the time they needed help don't expect him/her to help you back when you will be in need. Another aspect in which this is helpful is that if you don't have expectations and the other persons fulfills what he/she said you will be somehow happy but in case if he/she doesn't stand firm on what he/she said then you will not be sad. The sadness that comes when someone breaks promises, doesn't do what he/she said especially if you expected it to be is sometimes unbearable. Following this step you will make sure you never get hurt in these things.
3) Control your Emotions
Don't Shower your Emotions in front of everyone. As I said in the first step itself Be a somewhat mysterious and don't show your emotions in front of everyone for anyone (the mistake I did). Deep inside everyone there is an innocent child, don't let everyone to know about how sensitive you are.
4) TRUST that matters
Don't trust anyone easily. Fate provides you with several ups and downs in your life. These prove as a test for those who pose as your friend. In my opinion about 80% of friends you have are with you because either you are of their category or you have something that attracts them. This something can anything from knowledge, wit, your specialties such as computer knowledge or anything. But the remaining 20% who are there with you because of no reasons and help you in all your ups and downs as much as possible are your real friends or I should better say blessings from god. Always fulfill the expectations of others that thay have with you but don't have any expectation from them or trust them. Carefully select your friends whom you will trust, Because once broken trust can't be restored.
5) Knowledge of SELF
Always know what you are what are your specialities, what are your weakness and work accordingly. Someone climbing a mango tree in search of apple is as much foolish as someone who is physically weak and trying to make a carrier in cricket, football. The moment you will know exactly what you are then on your own start moving in the field of your interest. And when passion becomes profession, your life is "COMPLETE" but when you engage in something you don't like then you are "FINISH" !
6) Laughter is the best medicine
It is totally OK what I wrote in first 4 points but everyone is a "SOCIAL ANIMAL" and you need to be perform and live in a society. Always be jolly and be friendly. Make as much friends as you can, this doesn't mean you should trust everyone and have expectations. Laugh in front of everyone but make sure you cry alone. Be cool and meet everyone you meet with extra politeness because directly or indirectly he/she may be suffering from some problem in his/her life. While talking with anyone(not elders) have direct eye contact and first listern what they are saying. Make them feel comfort in your company.
7) Condemn on FACE but APPRECIATE behind BACK
Be a MAN ! (if you are) criticizing behind backs is girl's work and let them do it(most of the girls I met till were Back bitchers). What if you go for a health check up and the results were half good and half bad but the doctor told you only the good reports and told your bad reports to the other patients ? By criticizing them on their face you are not being rude but you are giving them a chance to improve. Also the feeling you get when a friend tells you that someone was appreciating you behind your back is nu-describable. But when you are criticizing others on their face make sure you follow you follow two things :- Put your points that you feel are bad in them politely and yes ! make sure that you crises them you and he/she are in private(alone). Don't pay attention on what people say behind your back.
8) Experience LITTLE MOMENTS too !
Remember your childhood when you were small ?. You didn't cared if your dad got salary or not but if you found a 10 Rs note lying on the road.. You became so happy. Try dancing/walking in a rain you will forget your bathroom shower may you get fever after the "RAIN DANCE" but you will not forget it. Always be ready to experience little moments of happiness.
9) Say Why not me ? rather than Why me ?
Don't be afraid of new experiences/failures/rejections because good decisions come from experiences and experience come from bad decisions. Never lose hope and wipe out the word "LAST CHANCE" out of your dictionary, because there are no last chance chances are always second last. Always take inspirations from failure. Improve yourself and hit back do this again and again until you succeed. Always try to have new experiences. Fate is the best tutor.
10) Keep Learning ON and ON
There is no limit on how much you can learn. There is no limit on learning. And the word "learn" include, but is not limited to only education and knowledge from books. Learning can be lessons the fate or the problems in your life taught you. Always keep learning because the knowledge you poses is handful but the total knowledge is the whole sky.
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